Doa Orang Yang Dizalimi

Jika dianiaya atau dizalimi, apakah doa kita akan dimakbulkan walaupun doa tu satu doa yg teruk spt mintak seseorang yg menganiaya kita (cth dgn amalan sihir2) mati dengan dasyat..??

hummm~~~

S.T.A.L.K.E.R

Types of stalkers

Psychologists often group individuals who stalk into two categories: psychotic and nonpsychotic.^[14] Stalkers may have pre-existing psychotic disorders such as delusional disorder,schizoaffective disorder, or schizophrenia. Most stalkers are nonpsychotic and may exhibit disorders or neuroses such as major depression, adjustment disorder, or substance dependence, as well as a variety of Axis II personality disorders (such as antisocial, avoidant, borderline, dependent, narcissistic, or paranoid). Some of the symptoms of "obsessing" over a person is part of obsessive compulsive personality disorder. The nonpsychotic stalkers' pursuit of victims can be influenced by various psychological factors, including anger, hostility, projection of blame, obsession, dependency, minimization, denial, and jealousy. Conversely, as is more commonly the case, the stalker has no antipathic feelings towards the victim, but simply a longing that cannot be fulfilled due to deficiencies either in their personality or their society's norms.^[15]

In "A Study of Stalkers" Mullen et al.. (2000)^[16] identified five types of stalkers:

• Rejected stalkers pursue their victims in order to reverse, correct, or avenge a rejection (e.g. divorce, separation, termination).
• Resentful stalkers pursue a vendetta because of a sense of grievance against the victims – motivated mainly by the desire to frighten and distress the victim.
• Intimacy seekers seek to establish an intimate, loving relationship with their victim. To many of them the victim is a long-sought-after soul mate, and they were 'meant' to be together.
• Incompetent suitors, despite poor social or courting skills, have a fixation, or in some cases, a sense of entitlement to an intimate relationship with those who have attracted their amorous interest. Their victims are most often already in a dating relationship with someone else.
• Predatory stalkers spy on the victim in order to prepare and plan an attack – often sexual – on the victim.

The 2002 National Victim Association Academy defines an additional form of stalking: The vengeance/terrorist stalker. Both the vengeance stalker and terrorist stalker (the latter sometimes called the political stalker) do not, in contrast with some of the aforementioned types of stalkers, seek a personal relationship with their victims but rather force them to emit a certain response favourable to the stalker. While the vengeance stalker's motive is "to get even" with the other person whom he/she perceives has done some wrong to them (e.g., an employee who believes is fired without justification from their job by their superior), the political stalker intends to accomplish a political agenda, also using threats and intimidation to force his/her target to refrain and/or become involved in some particular activity, regardless of the victim’s consent.^[17]

Many stalkers^[quantify] fit categories with paranoia disorders. Intimacy-seeking stalkers often have delusional disorders involving erotomanic delusions. With rejected stalkers, the continual clinging to a relationship of an inadequate or dependent person couples with the entitlement of the narcissistic personality, and the persistent jealousy of the paranoid personality. In contrast, resentful stalkers demonstrate an almost “pure culture of persecution,” with delusional disorders of the paranoid type, paranoid personalities, and paranoid schizophrenia.^[16]

One of the uncertainties in understanding the origins of stalking is that the concept is now widely understood in terms of specific behaviors^[18] which are found to be offensive and/or illegal. As discussed above, these specific (apparently stalking) behaviors may have multiple motivations.

In addition, the personality characteristics that are often discussed as antecedent to stalking may also produce behavior that is not stalking as conventionally defined. Some research suggests there is a spectrum of what might be called "obsessed following behavior." People who complain obsessively and for years, about a perceived wrong or wrong-doer, when no one else can perceive the injury—and people who cannot or will not "let go" of a person or a place or an idea—comprise a wider group of persons that may be problematic in ways that seem similar to stalking. Some of these people get extruded from their organizations—they may get hospitalized or fired or let go if their behavior is defined in terms of illegal stalking, but many others do good or even excellent work in their organizations and appear to have just one focus of tenacious obsession

sources: Wikipedia

CHECKLIST

Checlist for wut???? ok, now i need to do some checklist regarding my wedding ceremony...

START!!!

Tempah Pelamin + Kanopi = Done!!
Tempah Catering = Done!!
Tempah baju nikah = Done!!
Tempah baju sambut menantu = Dah!!
Tempah langsir = Done!!
Tempah kek potong = Done!!

Barang hantaran = 70 %~
Cenderahati tetamu = 60%~
Kotak cenderahati = 60%~

Kursus Kahwin = Done!!
Borang Kahwin = Belum Isi~
HIV Test = Belum buat~

Ambik baju nikah = End of April..reminder!!!!!~
Ambik baju sambut menantu = mid of may. reminder!!!~
Ambik tempahan langsir = mid of may. reminder!!!~

Beli tudung nikah = belum~
Beli tudung majlis kahwin = belum~
Beli tudung sambut menantu = belum~
Kasut sambut menantu = belum~

nota kaki: masih ada lagi ni yg tertinggal~~

This One!!!

T-ara – 5th Album Funky Town

Release Date : 2012.01.03

Genre : Dance, Pop

TRACK LIST:

01 Lovey-Dovey
02 We Were in Love
03 Lovey-Dovey (Club Remix Ver)
04 Cry Cry
05 Goodbye, OK
06 O My God

T-ARA!!

Status: Sedang berusaha download album!! chaiyok to myself!!!!


nota kaki: kertas exam adalah mcm gunung blum sentuh lagi. malasla~~

muncul kembali~~

hola!

rasanya dh bersawang blog ni, ari ni baru nk mgarut balik. sbbnya?? sem ni sgt2la sibuk.dengan dilaktiknya scra paksa jd ajk induk konvo, dgn subjek yg byk kena pegang, kelas yg byk dan student yg ramai lagi. kadang2 ada juga rasa berlaku kekacauan jiwa. ni pulak masuk budak degree. lagila tertekan. nasib baik la x dpt subjek yg haku tak suka aka akaun~~arghhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!~ astagfirullahalazim.....see, gila sbentar..hehe

btw, mybe bolehla update ckit apa yg sering terputar dlm hidupku sem ni (skema you)...aku pgang 3 subject yg boleh dikatakan subject killer sbb budak biasa failed which are Ship Economic and Finance (pegang bebudak engineer), Financial Accounting 1 (pegang bdk maritime management) n last one Financial Accounting 2 (bdk logistic)...tak tahu la kenapa kali ni rmai la pulak satu2 kelas tu...fes time masuk kelas rasa mcm kelabu mata je tgk bebudak ni..hehe..(disebabkan penyakit x suka berada dikhalayak ramai) :P~~

untuk subject economic n finance tu tak kisah sbb aku suka subject tu. tp bila smpi bab kna ajar akaun 1 n 2, perasaan pasrah jela. pasrah ni sbb dua faktor: 1) sbb tak suka subjek tu tp kena ajar... 2) sbb kesian kt student sbb totally fatal for them dpt aku jd lecturer diorg sbb dorg diajar dgn rasa terpaksa...huhuhu...

rasanya this sem cm ramai je yg bkl failed bcoz i decide to be more strict especially when it comes to the attendance issue. so, hopefully diorg fahamla yg attendance tu pntg. tlg la jgn ponteng2 sgt. aku phm kalo diaorg x mnat atau benci subject tu, tp diorg tk pk ke kalo dorg tak bersungguh2 mcm ni, nmpk gaya repeat lagi la sem depan subjek dibenci tu...

nota kaki: saya bukan ah long, sy cuma nk tolong... @.@

Liku-liku Perjalanan Per'konvo'anku (Part 1)

Selasa: 11/10/2011
~ balik je dari kerja, tergopoh gapah kemas baju semua n then bertolak ke KUANTAN bersama2 adik tersayang. Tido rumah abang sblm bertolak ke upm keesokkan harinya.

Rabu: 12/10/2011
~ Jam 4 am: Bermulalah pengembaraan ke UPM. Ambik abang satu lagi n ikut dia pegi parking kereta dia dkt stesen bas KUANTAN. sbb?? dia ditugaskan sebagai peneman kami adik beradik dalam perjalanan ke UPM. ~Jalan sgt la berkabus kat LPT~ huhu
~Around 6 am: Berhenti solat subuh kat genting sempah. Tukar baju semua kat ctu, penuhkan tank kereta sblm bergerak semula menuju ke destinasi.
~ Jam 8.30 am: Sampai kat UPM. Macam still awal utk taklimat. Abng n adik tinggalkan i kat dewan n dorg merayap2 ntah ke mana....
~After taklimat, hantar abang ke pudu...dan bermulalah perjalanan ke SHAH ALAM..g umah sewa cousin kat sana untuk tumpang bermalam :))

 

>> kazen: ika & my sis: mira<<

~ dia ni tinggal kat seksyen 7 sham alam..student mass com kat uitm..gila2 ckit orgnya..(byk kot gilanya)..umah dia dekat je dgn jusco...yang menariknya, umah dia ada bela anak landak : namanya landoo:: sgt2 la pemalu budak landoo ni..asik bergulung je keje dia..ish2

>>saya memegang landoo yang pemalu :P<<

>>Landoo terlupa dgn ke'malu'an dia :P<<

~Yang tak bape best, kazen ni ada kelas..jd taleh nk ajak berfoya2 sgt...malam tu just berdua g jusco, n kakak kazen ni (kazen i la juga), tepon suh kazen bwk kitorg g umah dia..lagi selesa katanya..tp kazen i ckp akan bawa keesokkan harinya..nak suruh jugak kitorg tido umah dia sehari..hehehe :D

~Mlm tu kitorg selamber je tido atas katil dia..(sekali sekala jer ika, len kali kitorg buat lagi) hihihi..tenkiu bg tumpang :D

Nota kaki: utk aktiviti keesokkan harinya...kita smbung di part 2 :D